Concentrate, focus and invest your time and energy to becoming undeniable, everything else will fall into place. If you work on being the best at what you do, it will be very hard for anyone to deny you anything. If you become the best candidate for a given position, how can anyone deny you?
Usually the people who deny you are the people you perceive to have the power.
Imagine if everything you did or attempted to do, you did it like it was the last thing you were ever going to accomplish, how undeniable would you be?
Too many times we just half ass things and scream foul when things don’t go our way. When you are undeniable and the people you perceive to have power decide not to give you that chance, then you can chalk it up to hate. Until then I suggest that you work on becoming undeniable.
Becoming undeniable might just boil down to a matter of opinion but I think it is more than just that, I think you have to know in your heart of hearts that what you do is the best and no one can deny it even if they tried.
The other day on twitter I asked people to send me their best songs, the work that they were the most proud of. To be honest a lot of the songs I received were mediocre. I am not trying to insult or deny anyone but it’s impossible that some of these people really felt like they submitted their best work. I’m no musical expert but I do however know the basics of composition, flow, sound, production and delivery and some of the songs just weren’t up to par.
When did subpar become the standard? My father always told me it starts with the parents. For example when kids bring home their art from school and their parents praise the work like its the next Picasso but the work itself isn’t good at all, it creates a false sense of accomplishment in the child’s mind. I guess parents don’t really want to hurt their child’s feelings so they just praised them instead. How does this child grow up? Does he decide to work to becoming undeniable, or does he just feel that everything he does is amazing?
I guess that’s why there are so many horrible singers who try out for American Idol. It feels like too many people have encouraged them by making them believe that they are amazing but in fact they are not. “ My mother told me I have a beautiful voice” ha!
When you feel denied by a blogger for post on his or her site, or a magazine, a job, a position, school, don’t give up I suggest you work harder at becoming undeniable.
Don’t be like so many and just chalk it up to hate, you have to know in your heart of hearts that what you did or trying to do is the best of all times!